So you may walk in the way of goodness,
And keep to the paths of righteousness.
For the upright will dwell in the land,
And the blameless will remain in it;
But the wicked will be cut off from the earth,
And the unfaithful will be uprooted from it.
Proverbs 2:20-22
One of the cruelest lesson my children have had to learn is
that of choice. Whether that is the
choice of what dessert they will have or what they will do with the last
remaining hour before bed time regret over decisions is a regular part of my
children’s lives. So frequently I hear
the words “I’m bored” an hour before bedtime, and “I want to do this one last
thing!” the moment the clock tells us that bedtime has arrived. Yet, no matter how much my children wish to
fit one last thing into the day, it cannot be done. That time has passed and the opportunity to
spend that hour is gone. One of the
things that the book of Proverbs teaches us is that our choices and decisions
matter. By the grace of Christ we have
the forgiveness of sins and the ability to start fresh each morning, but we are
never going to be given the opportunity to go and relive the time we wasted
yesterday. We are never going to be able
to unsay hurtful words, only apologize for them. One of the key subtexts of the book of
Proverbs is that our lives and decisions matter. While Jesus paid the full price for our sin
at the cross, He will still allow us to experience the effects of our actions
here on earth – for positive or for negative.
There is always grace for tomorrow, but there is no reliving
today.